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Could I Be Held in Contempt for a Divorce-Related Issue?
In an ideal world, divorcing spouses would be able to resolve all their disagreements and follow any orders handed down by an Illinois family court judge. Unfortunately, we do not live in an ideal world. One spouse may sometimes refuse to cooperate with an order or could even directly disobey an order, requiring enforcement of the judgment.
For example, one spouse may have been ordered to pay spousal support but refuses to do so because he or she feels the ruling was unfair. A judge’s orders could be permissive or prohibitive. A permissive order grants either party permission to engage in a specific conduct. During the distribution of assets portion of the divorce, the court could give one spouse permission to sell a specific vehicle and split the proceeds with the other spouse.
In the same situation, a prohibitive order could prohibit one spouse from concealing or transferring the vehicle to keep the other from taking possession of the vehicle. When a judge’s orders are ignored or deliberately violated, the judge could hold the person who violates the order in contempt of court. When you have an experienced Naperville, IL family law attorney from Calabrese Associates, P.C. as your advocate, a contempt of court ruling can often be avoided.
What Are the Most Common Mistakes Made During a Divorce?
Unfortunately, mistakes made during a divorce can have long-term negative consequences. When you are in the middle of a divorce that seems to be going on forever, and you are sick of arguing with your spouse, it can be tempting to simply say "You can have whatever you want." While understandable, this is never a good strategy.
Months or even years later, that choice can come back to haunt you in a big way. After choosing an experienced Naperville, IL divorce attorney that you trust to have your back, the best thing you can do is stay the course. Remind yourself as many times as it takes that the stress and anxiety you are going through now will end – and that it is necessary to ensure a fair divorce settlement.
Not Hiring a Divorce Attorney Soon Enough Can Be a Major Mistake
If you and your spouse are having a "friendly" divorce and are in agreement about virtually everything, then failing to hire a divorce attorney immediately may not be quite as devastating. However, for most couples, there will be disagreements about one or more issues, and even divorces that begin uncontested can quickly turn not only contested but hotly contested. It is important that you have a strong legal advocate in your corner who will ensure your interests are protected.
The Legal Nuances of Cohabitation in Relation to Alimony
Although most people who receive spousal maintenance in Illinois understand that those payments will stop if they remarry, cohabitation, or living with another person, can also result in the termination of monthly payments. A complex group of factors must be carefully navigated to avoid the termination of monthly spousal maintenance payments – which could be a financial lifeline for you at this point in your life.
Perhaps you are not cohabitating with another person in the romantic sense; rather, you are renting out a room in your home to an old friend who just happens to be of the opposite sex. Even though you may only be trying to bring in some needed cash while helping an old friend, appearances can be everything. It could be helpful to speak to an experienced Naperville, IL spousal maintenance lawyer from Calabrese Associates, P.C., who can determine where you stand legally.
What Impact Could Divorce Have on Daycare Decisions?
Many parents must work to pay necessary expenses. After a divorce, money may be tighter for both parties, making working even more vital. This means that younger children may need daycare when no close family member can care for them. As of 2023, about 23 million children ages five and under lived in the United States, with seventy-one percent of them living in households where both parents work. As a result, many working parents need some form of childcare arrangements.
If you are in the middle of a divorce and are facing issues with the allocation of parental responsibilities and child support, you may wonder how your child’s daycare could be affected. Will you be able to continue to afford daycare, or will your ex be required to pay at least half? Speaking to a knowledgeable Naperville, IL child support attorney from Calabrese Associates, P.C. can be helpful as you sort out the details of your divorce.
Should I Sign a Prenuptial Agreement with an Alimony Waiver?
Prenuptial agreements are becoming much more common across the United States. A significant percentage (19 percent) of prenuptial agreements are prepared in New York, followed closely by California and Florida. In most cases, one partner in the relationship is the driving force behind the prenuptial agreement. The reasons for seeking a prenuptial agreement range from protecting business interests to providing for children from a previous marriage.
If your fiancé asks you to waive spousal support in a prenuptial agreement, should you agree? Of course, there are many factors to consider in an important decision like this, and the decision should not be taken lightly. It can be beneficial to speak to an experienced Naperville, IL family law attorney from Calabrese Associates, P.C. who can help you decide whether signing a prenuptial with an alimony waiver is in your best interests.
What is an Illinois Status Hearing and What Should I Expect?
Divorce is a process that many are not prepared for. Because of this, it is helpful to have a divorce attorney you trust who can guide you through the process, answer your questions, and explain how things will work. At some point during your Illinois divorce, your attorney may tell you there is an upcoming status hearing. Your divorce may have multiple status hearings, motions sent back and forth, interrogatories, possibly a divorce deposition, a pre-trial, and a trial if you and your spouse disagree on issues and cannot reach a pretrial settlement.
A status hearing allows both parties to inform the court about any progress made on previously identified issues and to determine next steps. While it may be unfamiliar to you, your Naperville, IL divorce attorney can guide you through your status hearings and the entire divorce, working toward the best outcome possible.
What Things Are Discussed During a Status Hearing?
Unless your presence is specifically requested, you may not have to attend all status hearings, although attending ensures you fully understand everything that is happening during your divorce. Status hearings can include such issues as:
When a Parent’s Move Causes Difficulties for the Other Parent
The allocation of parental responsibilities often comes with what may seem like constant difficulties with your ex. This can include when the other parent moves within the 25-mile allowable range, and you realize that move is leaving you with less and less time with your child. Years ago, the laws governing how far a primary residential parent can move in Illinois without court approval changed.
Up until the change, the primary residential parent could move anywhere within the state without Court approval or the approval of the other parent. This changed to allow the primary residential parent to move up to 25 miles without court approval, although these 25 miles can potentially cross a state line. To move farther than this, the parent needs approval. The 25-mile rule applies to parents living in Cook, DuPage, Kane, Lake, Henry, and Will Counties. Outside these six counties, the limit is 50 miles.
What if you are the parent awarded parenting time (formerly "visitation"), and this move has resulted or will result in difficulties in spending time with your child? Can you object to the move? Can you ask the Court for a modification of the allocation of parental responsibilities? Talking to an experienced Naperville, IL custody attorney from Calabrese Associates, P.C. can help you determine whether you have any options in this situation.
What Can I Do If My Ex Only Feeds Our Child Junk Food? | IL
The allocation of parental responsibilities can be one of the tougher parts of your divorce. Decisions must be made that are in the best interests of your child, regardless of how you or your ex feel about it. Old grievances and feelings toward your ex must be set aside in order to work together for the good of your child. The following scenario could apply to virtually any issue that divides parents and makes co-parenting difficult.
You and your ex share custody of your seven-year-old daughter. Two years after the divorce, the two of you have been mostly successful at putting aside your differences when it comes to parenting. Recently, your daughter has put on a significant amount of weight. She is self-conscious about the weight gain, has stopped her normal outside activities, and is having constant colds, flu, and stomach issues. Your daughter has told you that when she is with her dad, they eat nothing but fast food and that the house is full of chips and chocolate.
Can I Be Awarded Custody of My Pet During My IL Divorce?
While pets have long been considered "property" to be divided during a divorce under the rules of equitable distribution, as of January 2018, the state of Illinois allows judges to consider the well-being of the pet. Pets and their owners often have deep emotional bonds, and breaking those bonds can be harmful to the owner and the pet. Unfortunately, some spouses use pets as a bargaining chip to get what they want from the divorce.
In particular, if the pet or pets largely belong to one spouse, the other may threaten to keep the pet if he or she does not get everything asked for. As the law has continued to evolve since 2018 regarding pet custody, you should discuss your issues with an experienced Naperville, IL divorce attorney from Calabrese Associates, P.C. who can apply these changes to your current situation. Attorney Michael J. Calabrese is committed to keeping you updated regarding all important developments throughout the progression of your case.
What Are the Five Stages of Divorce – And Which is the Worst?
Many people are familiar with the five stages of grief following the death of a loved one. A divorce, while not a death, is still a loss. The end of a marriage is so painful because it not only includes the loss of a partnership but also the loss of the dreams and commitments shared by the couple. Like death, divorce is life-altering for many, resulting in an array of emotions along with changes and challenges.
When a couple decides to divorce, no matter how friendly the divorce begins, the process can be filled with landmines. Marital assets must be divided up, spousal support must be determined, and perhaps the marital home will be sold. If there are children, the allocation of parental responsibilities and child support must be determined, and a parenting plan must be prepared.
Trying to accomplish any of these things on your own can make the divorce much more difficult and time-consuming. When you have an experienced Naperville, IL divorce attorney from Calabrese Associates, P.C. as your legal advocate, you can expect an easier, quicker process and you can be sure your rights are being protected at every turn.